In the meantime, however, the disruptive effects for a particular couple may be pervasive enough to permanently affect their relationship.Almost all couples fight, and some fights are worse than others.After apparently irretrievable things have been said and done, being able to have sex (which under those circumstances can hardly be called making love) does not mean that everything is restored to where it was: it only means that restoration may still be possible.The erotic communication does not solve the problem; but it does keep open, at least, some avenue of communication.In this case, doesn't it seem like a logical and reasonable conclusion to not make a move if the other person doesn't seem interested?
However, I still have some reservations about really making my feelings clear to this guy who I'm interested in, because I'm pretty confident he doesn't feel the same way about me.We’re not teenagers — we never had the “Will you go out with me” or “Here’s my letterman jacket” conversations.We talk openly and candidly via phone at least three times a week while he’s working. I love the fact we don’t text to communicate, but have actual conversations.However, I still have some reservations about really making my feelings clear to this guy who I’m interested in, because I’m pretty confident he doesn’t feel the same way about me.We’re acquainted and talk when we see each other, but he seems somewhat apathetic about me.I don’t think he dislikes talking to me, but I also don’t get the sense that he’s particularly into me.In this case, doesn’t it seem like a logical and reasonable conclusion to not make a move if the other person doesn’t seem interested? If a man gives off a vibe that he’s not interested in more than friendship, he doesn’t deserve your love. And why you are attracted to a man who barely shows you attention is something worth exploring.Considering you talk for 90 minutes a night and get naked face-to-face, you should be able to have this conversation.You should know if he’s monogamous or pulling off the road after he’s done talking with you and finding a friend he knows nearby. Do it when you’re together so you can look in his eyes during any silence. If he backs away or doesn’t share your feelings, find out why.That is, it does not occur because of illness or hormone deficiency but because of depression or some other negative state of mind.It may relate to a loss of self-esteem due to business failure or to the aging process or to a midlife crisis.