Imagine one day seeing your black queen with a cute pixie style.
But then the next week, she's rocking Marley twists.
Again, there are a million types of relationships out there, and there's no harm in laughing at the little things that need to be explained.
Meanwhile, online, I could decide between sites with free memberships, such as Plenty of Fish; paid sites with an older, more earnest clientele, such as e Harmony; niche sites such as and Gluten-Free Singles; and many others, all slightly differentiated by price, demographics, and objectives.Not to mention, there are some family secrets better left buried than getting your hands dirty trying to dig them out.It isn't that your family should have to be explained to your man, but a heads up about the fact you don't necessarily abide by the rules of the nuclear family couldn't hurt. Black families are always willing to hand you the hilariously unordinary.But don't let that serve as an excuse: People should get over it.But even if they don't, you have your own life to live.Another thing that should probably be brought up is clothes and how they fit.Black women don't always have the luxury of shopping just anywhere: Our bodies aren't fully represented in the retail field.At times, you've probably had to tell your man why a group of black men looked at him like he was their third-grade bully all grown up.The stares won't stop and the judgments will be hard at times, but you have to remember there was a time when the two of you together was unfathomable.Black women, you already know jean or pant shopping only comes second to being damned to hell's inferno.Like I mentioned earlier, we may not be living in outdated times anymore, but we haven't completely jumped ship from people's stalemate mindsets with regard to interracial dating.