Give a guy the chance to feel as if you both desire and need his attentiveness and assistance. Men are often accused of having "roving eyes" because men are indeed hard wired to look at sexually appealing women.A woman once asked me, "If a guy checks out another woman, is that a sign he doesn't like you?Just watch a baby when she is smiling, deep down she knows that her smile triggers attention and empathy without saying a single word, because we all feel attracted to happy people.Have you ever endured a 4 hour flight trip close to a crying baby?So allow him to be useful in any ways possible - especially if he offers.If he offers to pull back a chair for you, accept it.Now this doesn’t mean that you have to be in the cover of any magazine, nope.It means that you consider yourself a man of high status and this is part of your secret weapon for dating success.
Cute little appetizers that looked like exotic blooms. We don't want arm candy, we want someone we can count on in life. Early dates, I suppose are like politics and sausage. Yes, gender roles are changing, but when a man is dating a woman, he is generally not only assessing whether you'd be a good fit at home, but also in public. Classic dating tomes tell women to smile and tilt their head and laugh at a man's jokes, feeble as they may be, in order to create attraction. Wow, I could never take her out to a meal with my business associates because she would instantly lower my status.Women are far more intuitive than men in body language and you can use her ability to your own advantage. With your body language send signals that you are looking for approval and acceptance, and this is a big turn off for hot women because they look for men to admire and not men who put them in a pedestal.Hot women are looking for leaders, men to follow who have a higher social status than them.Even though gender roles are changing, men generally like to feel useful on a date and in their relationships.Being able to pass you the salt, or change your light bulbs, or carry heavy boxes for you are small but important modern ways of being your hero.Without saying a single word he communicates anger, frustration, sadness, and you want to run away from him because we don’t like to be close to sad or mad people.We all know in a subconscious way other person’s mood and if we like or dislike that person without hearing a single spoken word.Your body language should communicate that you are the one who is withholding or granting approval.For us men, it’s often hard work to spot the body language signs of a woman whilst we’re interacting with her.