I also don’t see how either of the APs would be endangered by such a situation.So if I wasn’t sure, there was a dangerous criminal, I would definitely make sure before I open that box…What’s classic: Your Au Pair’s friend, who is also an Au Pair, is doing something unsafe.Your Au Pair told you about it, because she’s worried. How can you help in a positive way, without giving away the confidence of your own Au Pair?
There are so many possible scenarios here…I don’t see a big time drug dealer telling a person he has never met in person about his business. Drug overdose deaths have outpaced fatalities from motor vehicle accidents and, in what one official called “a silver lining to what is absolutely a tragedy,” there has been a grim increase in organ donation.In the last five years, organ donors who died of overdoses jumped by 50 percent, according to Organ Procurement and Transplantation Network data.A few days later, she shared that the guy will be coming to visit in late November and the au pair is planning on having him stay with her and her host family.I asked if the host parents were aware of his profession and if they were aware that he would staying with them (the au pair has her own suite so lots of privacy). I feel obligated to report this to someone — the other host mom or my community counselor.And she should be worried, since the Au Pair’s friend is putting herself and her group of Au Pairs in a potentially compromising position. The new wrinkle: It’s not an escort service, driving drunk, or dating a married guy — it’s dating a drug dealer. Last week she told me that one of her friends (a fellow au pair) met a guy online, who lives out of state, and happens to be a drug dealer.Our au pair shared that she does not think this is a good idea, but didn’t say much else.I’m not saying it’s great or right, but I’m not sure that the issue is really as big as it initially sounds.(Would a big time, dangerous drug dealer really tell his online girlfriend??Finally, I don’t want my au pair to be exposed to any danger by being friends with this other au pair .I am concerned about this friendship that my au pair has with the other au pair, as the other au pair is not exhibiting very good judgment. She’s already worried and is therefore probably smart enough to distance herself enough not be put in danger.