the Saudi-American relationship virtually always blossoms in the States, in a climate that allows dating, cohabitation, children out of wedlock, religious diversity, and a multitude of other Islamic sins which go unnoticed by Saudi relatives and religious leaders thousands of miles away.
American citizen wives swear that the transformation in their Saudi husbands occurs during the transatlantic flight to the Kingdom.
I, in no way, support the notion of having a man marry four women at the same time.
How could you be with someone knowing he’s being intimate with someone else?
Well, this just proves that some are incapable of doing so, therefore dating other women while married would be wrong.
I can guarantee you that once he gets his second wife he will soon lose interest in her and then move onto the third then fourth wife.
And if he gets fed up with all four then he can get rid of them and get four more in their place. It’s the same as drinking: not everyone can handle a drink or two.
Note to readers: This weblog entry on official advice to women not to marry Muslim men has, to my surprise and delight, become the springboard for an intense, heated, and personal dialogue between non-Muslim women romantically involved with Muslim men.
Judging by a number of testimonies, the site has proved valuable to many women benefiting from advice and the sharing of information; for a couple of examples see the postings by Sally, Nourshehane, Jeweler46, and Cindy (starting here, continuing here, and ending here).