Even if he does that you can be sure he has finished work and is just kidding around, which brings me to the next characteristic…HE PLAYS HARD….what’s all that hard work for if you don’t get to spend the proceeds?
He LURVES to groove…whether its at the Club or the open air pepper soup joint at Obalende!
Well, a crazy colleague of mine decide to take on the role of match-maker and started asking for their likes, preferences etc. That, I can tell you, put paid to her “Nigerian-husband” ambition.
As they were giving it one by one amidst much laughter, one of them dropped the bombshell that she couldn’t cook. Overall, the Nigerian man may have his flaws (who doesn’t?
The Nigerian man (along with his woman) likes to enjoy the good things of life.
Well, they may help you spend your money and get you ditched. If you really want to date pretty hot girls from Nigeria, you need to take responsibility or what else do you think a man does? There is a kind of attitude that gets you women before you even ask, it's the tough and confidence-filled kind ofattitude when you walk up to a girl in Nigeria and forget what to say; you just killed your manly ego, OK, this happens occasionally but your ability to keep trying to stand up to women and say the right things is what makes you a real man.
A man does what is right because the woman will always blame the man when anything goes wrong irrespective of who caused it, the woman hopes you would be there to guide her steps, or what else do you think is taking responsibility. Effective communication is very vital in any relationship and people from Nigeria speaks English so that is the first tip.
My idea of effective communication is the talking confidently like a real man, guys are more synonymous with giving compliments like women depend on it but it is obvious that lots of compliment and lip service would pass you off a mare pleaser and that is not a good kind of personality.
From the time he comes screaming from her into the world and all rejoice that “it’s a boy!
” he is doted and waited on hand and foot by the female folk in the family…whether mothers, sisters, aunties and their girlfriends/wives are expected to pick up from there.