Many men love the fact that a woman is mature enough to appreciate a good man when she sees him.They love when a woman knows what she wants and can handle herself in social situations, and they love when a woman is a great conversationalist, and can carry a conversation.There are many reasons why a woman would be single at the age of 35 and still hoping to find her true love.You can find love and a beautiful, happy, and healthy relationship at any age.I separated from my husband of 25 years a few months ago.After living with bone-crushing aloneness within that relationship for a decade, followed by months actively grieving that loss, I found myself ready for some companionship.I’d started dating at 16 and had experienced nothing but messed-up, far-too-dependent-on-each-other pairings from that first time out the gate until the day I married at 24.
The truly flawed nature of my being must have somehow become visible. Who would possibly want to go out with a woman four years his senior? Who did I think I was to believe, even for an instant, that someone like that would be interested in me? I am educated and smart; I work as a graduate-school professor and author. Is this the core shame at the center of every human, that hideous inner knowledge we spend as much of our lives as possible trying to keep hidden? And how, please God someone tell me how, was I to be free of it?As well, they are young enough to still have fun, but also mature enough not to settle, and to go after their dreams.I've heard many opinions from men about dating women over the age of 35 and most of them love it, and prefer it.Men love a woman that displays wisdom, confidence, and grace, and that usually comes with age. But still, men love it when a woman is comfortable in every aspect of her being, and definitely on an intimate level. Women ages 35 and older will likely want to be taken seriously when it comes to dating and being in a relationship.As well, an older and more mature woman is usually a confident one, that is comfortable with her body, her looks, and she tends to love and accept herself. Well, unless a woman is the Samantha type from Sex and the City.They tend to be more confident and sure of themselves.They've likely dated enough to know what works for them and what doesn't in a relationship.Some women have concentrated on their careers to the point where they've entirely put off dating or didn't dedicate enough time to it when they were younger.It definitely isn't a busy woman's priority when she's very motivated, driven, and career oriented.Some women have seen their parents go through a divorce and they've become extremely cautious, in order not to end up like their parents, and because of that, they've waited to settle down out of fear.Others have gotten married, got a divorce, and are now single again at the age of 35 or older.