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Woman A: Prior to getting my cochlear implants, it was hard for me to date the guy I was seeing at the time because I couldn't hear him well and he'd get frustrated.

I'd also have to try and find a well-lit place so I could see him and read his lips.

I see making a distinction between the two often divides the culturally proud Deaf from those who have a similar experience and shared oppressions, but are maybe not friends with tons of Deaf people or what have you (because of accessibility and other factors).

Woman A: I had my first boyfriend at 14, but not a "real" one until I was 21. Woman C: I didn't have an official date until my freshman year of high school.

Sexually, there was always the issue of whether I should keep my hearing aids (and later, cochlear implants) on or not.

They'd fall off or get bumped off a lot, so I'd usually take them off before, but then communication was a challenge because I couldn't hear.

I was nervous that they'd see them and think, "Oh man, I'm about to be with a disabled person. I had a few people scream at me, which was very upsetting, especially since often times I could hear them but I couldn't understand anything they are saying. Woman B: Again, there's no difference in my sex life with a hearing man or d/Deaf man.

The differences have come out of different personality types and levels of self-awareness.

In this week's Sex Talk Realness, spoke with three women who are deaf to find out what it's really like to date as someone who is differently abled. Now, I have started to refer to myself as deaf because I no longer think it's such a bad thing.I'm deaf with a lower case d because I can't hear without the use of cochlear implants, but I never learned sign language and don't have much of a desire to.Woman B: I honestly don't have a preference between uppercase and lowercase d/Deaf.Learn more, including about available controls: Cookies Policy.A recent thread on Reddit featured a 20-year-old deaf woman who said she really wanted to have sex, but she was scared to. I was legally deaf, but I had a tiny bit of hearing.Woman C: Whether I have cochlear implants on or not, I just tell them.Sometimes if I'm not wearing them, my husband will use Siri Voice to tell me something if there's an emergency.Woman B: My current partner and I tend to speak or sign beforehand about what we like/don't like.If it's in the act, I'll usually just say "nope." There's really no need to articulate why it isn't working right in the moment, since it kills the mood. Woman B: I've been deaf since I was about 2 years old.I don't use Deaf with a capital D because those who use Deaf with a capital D are part of a specific community, with sign language as their primarily means of communication.

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