In the rare instances, you have failed to convince her you are the one.In all my positive experiences with women, they are infatuated from the get go.Don't tell a girl you've "never met anybody like her" if you'd still like to meet a bunch of people like her and get blowjobs from them.And if you've got the kind of girl who reeeeeally isn't looking for exclusivity, she doesn't want you barfing your gross emotion germs all over her. Done responsibly, dating a lot of women is no longer considered outré.It's one of those things that gets brought up if you're thinking about being even remotely exclusive.This dating theory, devised by relationship coach and former crisis counsellor Rori Raye, requires you to be seeing a minimum of three men at one time - but does it just leave your confused and knackered?
I'd just gone through a particularly harrowing breakup (it involved the bitter division of Wesley Snipes film bootlegs on VHS, to provide both historical and raw emotional context).Send your anonymous sex and dating questions to [email protected], and we'll answer them in our new advice column, 99 Problems.Second date with a girl I asked and she replied with, "I don't talk about dating with guys because I feel like it's too personal." Fukin lol'd in my head and went NC the second the date ended, has been hitting me up regularly since to hangout.Asking about her seeing other guys when neither of you are actually dating each other is pretty weird.It's one of those things that gets brought up if you're thinking about being even remotely exclusive. This is one of those chicks where you don't go on dates that cost money.But, at the same time, you aren't a Branch Davidian cult leader and you can't treat the world like a Waco sex compound, stocked with unstable teen runaways.The situation can be a minefield, so here are a couple of ground rules for being an ethical he-ho.What should be consuming your thoughts is being the top dog. Be excellent in all aspects; especially the bedroom, having a good time, respect, appearance, unpredictability, charm/witt, humerous, etc.If after a few months of things going well and no exclusive talk comes up and you still suspect she is dating others, then she is just a sl00t who wants to get passed around and can't commit.Haven't been on a date with a quality girl in months crew.This shouldn't phase you brahs and shouldn't consume your thoughts. Unless exclusive, she can see whomever she wants but also, as can you .