They could actually teach the guy to do certain things, since he isn't familiar, he will do it to please you, unlike some other guys with a lot of experience and having their old ways and not accepting any new "strategies" and "moves". Men and women who equate "experience" with being good--or even great--lovers are kidding themselves.
Not to mention having sex many times does not equal being "experienced". My first boyfriend had no experience, but he was by far the best lover I have ever had.
as another lady above said, willingness to learn is key. The ones who think they are Rico Sauve and have it all figured out are often terrible.i will be completely honest and the best sex i have ever had in my life was with a 23 year old guy who lost his virginity to me.nice to be able to show someone how you like it and to see the pleasure on their face at experiencing their first experience.
however, saying that I had a woman lose virginity to me as a girl on girl thing.in the days when i was curious (im not curious about experiences with girls any more!
, im completely straight now) and that was not good..
I have dated women who had 2-3 boyfriends already in her life and she was rubbish in bed. He was 100% into pleasing me, and I learned that being 100% into pleasing him made my experience so much better.
I'm sure it's the same with guys it takes 2 to have sex unless you only masturbate and call it a sex, but just because someone holds some badge of a number of women or men, that doesn't necessarly mean he or she is experienced at all or good in bed. What I have learned is that a lot of men have very little idea of how to please ME unless they are willing to learn.