I honestly have no idea what motivates you for choosing these guys, CD.
They’ve been unhappy for so long that they fall in love with the first woman who is cuter or nicer than their wives, only to realize that they’re not ready for the responsibility that comes with real commitment – especially when they’re not even out of their last commitment yet. I couldn’t say whether you are desperate or have weak boundaries.
I’ve been to therapy, read all the books, I meditate, I journal, write gratitude lists, and attend seminars… Come back tomorrow for another video that will tell you exactly what steps you need to take to find love.
But I do know that there is no shortage of single or divorced men who are sincerely ready for a relationship. Because for all the therapy, meditation, journaling, and gratitude lists you have under your belt, you still don’t have the most important thing: the willingness to extract yourself from bad situations quickly.
Jonathon is a defender and protector of women’s hearts around the world. Highlights below There’s a misconception about what emotionally unavailable means. The challenge is that men are emotionally under-skilled.
Well ladies, as it turns out, it was him – not you.Are you chasing him over and over again – and ultimately chasing him away?Are you tired of him sending conflicting hot and cold messages?If a man starts a date with sharing problems in his life, women often think he’s sharing his emotions. Ladies, I have a confession to make: all the guides I've come across and the advice I've given before has been focused on us woman and understanding – from our perspective – how to deal with our breakup and get our ex back. Especially for those that broke up with no clear reason for the breakup.What happens with men as they age is that testosterone decreases and estrogen increases.All of a sudden, they experience emotions and can’t express them properly. I just broke up with someone who I dated for 5 months. My last boyfriend was separated and based on that experience, I vowed to not date a man that had children (he had one). I don’t know if I will ‘fall’ for someone who is not right.He said he was in the process of divorcing, that we were monogamous and that he wanted a future with me. I guess it could happen but the key thing is to recognize if a man is not right for you sooner rather than later.My radio guest, Jonathon Aslay, chatted with me about this important topic. Jonathon is like A GUY SPY to the male mind who truly understands the way a single or divorced man thinks and acts.He is known as America’s Leading Midlife Dating & Relationship Coach. He’s a master at helping women recognize and distinguish the difference between men who are emotionally unavailable from those who are truly ready for love.