Or, a hot date with Freddy Mercury and we’re both wearing jumpsuits (imagine how fun that would be).LIKES: big beautiful eyes, a great smile, a positive outlook, a sense of humour, charisma, walks on the beach, Chinese food, tattoos DISLIKES: gossip, horror movies, sushi, lazy people, bad kissers How do you meet dates? I want them to see me for who I am, so I normally tell them on the first date.A: Try not to think of your status as the cause of your perils. Your status doesn't define who you are and it's not the Scarlet letter you think it is.Not all neg guys are opposed to dating someone positive.
As we were kissing, he looked at me and asked: “Are you clean?
I like to build up the sexual tension if I’m really into the person, and then I’ll say, “I got the HIV.” Has disclosing ever led to a disaster date or a magical moment? I date men and women, and I’ve never had someone kick me out of bed for being positive. The perfect date: We ride our bikes to a park and have a picnic on a red-and-white-checkered picnic blanket, with vintage china teacups and home-baked treats.
There’s lots of conversation with a definite make-out at the end.
Think about it: your personality hasn't changed, you are still the same person. HIV does not define you as a person, always remember that.
LIKES: beards, leather, video games, zombies, nerdy guys, sci-fi, B-rated horror movies, glasses, bearded nerdy guys with glasses (maybe wearing leather) DISLIKES: attitude, goat cheese (ugh!