In the end that is way to much work and time to invest just to get some head.
Then you have the other Dominant , the fuck with your head, trying to get over on you, bull shitting his way through a relationship that is never going to happen.
Ive said it many times , life is based on two actions and two actions only, those would be choices and consequences. Sitting back and looking at the progress, changing someone for the better, changing someones thought process, changing habits, training. Training one to drop to their knees on command, or to spread on command, with either a voice command or a simple hand gesture. I want to stand alone , I want to be different, I wanted to be someone my slave had never experienced.There are however circumstances which would not allow one to relocate, that being a career one makes more money than he other , but if two want a relationship bad enough and you feel you have enough in common someone is going to make that move…If your training consist of sucking cock or being on your back, getting punished all the time just for the fuck of it, then I would sit back and rethink things out.Submission not only runs on different levels, but it runs deep, and each one is different , each has different needs , but in the end the outcome is the same .You have a submissive who craves to be trained, loved and cared for.I was going through some groups in fetlife , where subs were looking for Dominants, and most of what I read from other Doms was , Man I wish you were closer.In my eye Distance has nothing to do with anything, if your willing to invest the time needed to build a relationship, then distance is not even an issue….Our crawlers analyze millions of adult-videos every day and determine whether they contain porn.The result is that is the only place that has any and all porn videos currently existing on the net.