Do you spend a lot of time now and then daydreaming about situations where you and your ex bump into each other and spend time together, at work or on a holiday or some other place?
But unless you close the past chapter and start your present romance with a clean slate, you’ll never be able to move on.
If you’ve never really tried to get over you ex, and secretly use your partner only to fill the void on your heart, you’ll never ever be able to move on, and you’ll never experience a relationship that can truly be fulfilling and blissful.
[Read: How to let go of the one you love by hating them] Learn to move on You may still have a secret crush on your ex, or you may dream of getting back with them someday. The odds of dating an ex and having a successful relationship with them are very slim.
Carry this on for a few months and you may just end up becoming a stalker! If you’ve considered having an affair with your ex or if you’re trying to convince your ex to have an affair with you, you know you haven’t moved on yet.
Even thinking it is a sure sign that you’d be willing to give up your present relationship if your ex would give you a second chance.