Moreover, some women actually prefer less experienced guys, because they think (rightly or wrongly) that they’re not “players”. In my early twenties as a virgin beta male, I lied to the woman I lost my virginity to and told her I had sex with “ten women” already. This turned her right back on again, and we had sex, and I lost my V-card. I was so ashamed about what I did that it took me many years to actually come clean and tell her she had been my first. If you’re not that experienced, don’t pretend to women that you’re more experienced than you are.Your guy buddies might give you some shit about it, fine, but women really don’t mind.You young guys have no idea how fortunate you are to have the resources available to you today. Today I’m going to list the top seven dating tips and mindsets I wish I had known back then. The truth is women are far more sexual creatures than men are. The difference is the amount of rules and regulations women place around sex thanks to Societal Programming. This doesn’t mean you do anything against her will.If I had known these things back when I was 18 or 22, man, my sex life and relationship life in throughout my 20s would have been completely different. Assuming she’s attracted to you, she wants to fuck you very, very badly, even if she acts like she doesn’t want to and even if she seems to resist sex. The only reason it seems like you are the one who wants it and she does not, is because she’s been trained her entire life to resist her biological urges and to pretend like she doesn’t like sex. It means you stop assuming that you are the one who wants sex more. Women are not going to get mad at you when you open them.Divorced or married, it made little difference, these women were radically different than the happy high school girls I was used to. Seriously, going from high school directly into the corporate world was a huge culture shock. In the corporate world, suddenly I heard women talk about how stupid men were and how all men were liars. I had no idea how to dance but I did my best to dance with Darkhair. I was too much of a pussy and didn’t know how to follow through.
He was talking with a big simile about how college was a “woman-fest”. When I was in my early 20s, before I started my business, I was a low-level manager at the corporate office of a big bank. I thought there was no way “meeting up with girls” would be that easy. When we arrived at the club there was a group of four hot, eager, young girls waiting for us, all dressed to the nines. Seriously, it would have taken years off my learning curve. There are a few other things I may address in future posts.
I’ve lived a pretty good life and I’ve made a lot of good decisions, even as a younger guy, so I had to think hard about this.
I finally determined that my biggest regret was not taking two years in my early twenties and living abroad, specifically Asia (before marriage, kids, debt, health issues, and other typical older-man responsibilities). Back then I thought, as most of you guys do, that the only “proper” way to have kids was to chop off my balls and hand them over to a woman by signing a legal marriage contract and having a wedding.
You’re not.) This is a huge misunderstanding about the word “seduction”. In most cases, they’ll be happy to have someone to talk to.
The art of seduction is not getting women to do what they don’t want to do. As a younger guy, I always expected that if I walked up to a woman and said hi, or asked a woman out on a date, she would get upset, possibly insult me, and possibly cause a scene. As experienced daygame guys will tell you, 99% of women are extremely polite when you open them or ask them out, and are often flattered even if they aren’t attracted to you.