You can’t believe that they’ve moved on so fast, so you consult your friend, search the Internet and everyone seems to say the same thing. The new guy/girl seems completely opposite of you and yet your ex seems committed to make this relationship work.You are confused because everyone seems to be telling you it’s a rebound relationship while your instincts tell you that your ex has moved on.After a breakup, that intimacy is gone in a matter of few days and you are left feeling empty. It gives you a chance to feel that level of intimacy again.
And the thought of it just being a rebound relationship is very comforting.
She feels that perhaps this guy can make all her pain and the emptiness go away. Whenever she is with him, her mind is not thinking about the breakup and you. But still whenever she is alone, the pain comes back.
She can’t let go of this feeling of emptiness even though she is a new relationship.
She feels a little better when she is with Garry, but she can’t shake the feeling that this relationship is not giving her the peace that she expected.
At this point, most people realize that this new relationship will not bring them the peace and happiness they were hoping it would. She thinks that the new relationship, despite not being what she expected, is still giving her some level of comfort.