NEXT: "Cool" guys finish last [pagebreak] Vague adjectives signal “dull” and appear in far too many profiles, Robinson warns.“‘I’m a laid-back, easygoing guy…’ Such terms are practically meaningless.And because of that..has been such a blessing for both of us.” ~ Bryan Long We recognize that it can be challenging to meet other Christian singles with whom you share common goals, interests, and backgrounds in your geographical area, and we can help.The e Harmony membership pool is a diverse group of individuals.For that, you need to combine persuasive language with the kind of images that makes your profile pop rather than flop, which, as many have learned from experience, isn’t as easy as it sounds.
Instead of saying, ‘I’m witty,’” Robinson suggests, “say, ‘I’m one part Ricky Gervais, one part Jon Stewart, and a soupcon of Fred Flintstone.’ That paints a more vivid picture.” I like surfing, reading, swimming, jogging, and cooking. If you saw a list like this on a cute girl’s profile, how would you possibly respond? “ ‘Last summer, I went surfing at the Jersey Shore nearly every day with my dog Rufus. Buy me a beer, and I’ll tell you more.’ Something like that gives a date plenty to want to talk to you about—plus you sound like an active, interesting person, not just a list of gerunds.” Don’t stretch the truth, even on minor details.
“If you aren’t sure how your profile looks/reads, ask a friend to proof it,” she suggests.
“They can catch any potentially off-putting, Charlie-Brown-sulking statements, as well as good-naturedly make fun of you for any weird phrasing or half-truths.
This system is a key factor in e Harmony’s matching success and the main point of differentiation between our service and that of other traditional Christian dating services. It’s a relationship site for singles looking to find long-term, committed relationships.
“With e Harmony, you’re meeting somebody who’s truly right for you.” ~ Amy Long “From our first date, I realized that this is somebody that I want to spend the rest of my life with.