For combinations not listed above, here's a quiz that also takes gender into account. Carey is an award-winning filmmaker with fifteen years in production, ten years as producer and seven years as producer/director.Here's how he conceptualizes compatibility by birth order combinations: Only child and youngest; first-born and youngest; middle child and youngest: Gender plays a role here, but for the absolute best match, pair the female only child or first-born female with a male youngest child who has older sisters.First-born married to a first-born: If you take a look at the personality traits described above, it stands to reason that this pairing has potential for high friction.They are organized, responsible, natural leaders, perfectionists, caretakers, and loyal friends and colleagues.The research is still slim regarding first born women, but our organization is a forum to discuss what those characteristics are.One of my favorite areas of study is that of attraction - what draws people together, statistically what characteristics work and why, and how we determine predictors of marital success. (It's kind of like astrology but oh-so-slightly more scientific.) Your birth order falls into one of four categories: first born, middle, last born or only.(And, if you're one of 5 children then your family has 3 "middles".) According to Popular Science here are some birth order characteristics: wrote the book, "The Birth Order Connection".
If one of the middle-born partners has first-born tendencies and one has last-born tendencies, this can be a good love match. This works until said little bro and sis get old enough and put you in your damn place. Life, and all it’s hardships, have a way of chipping away at this perceived “specialness” but still, we got more attention than the rest of our siblings and it’s something that sticks with us forever. But for real, most oldest children are used to ruling the roost and telling their pep squad of little bro and sis’s what to do and how to do it. Our parents gave us every opportunity in the world and fawned over us and took more baby photos of us and were more careful the first time around with us, so we’re used to being treated a little special. In addition to these founding members, members 10 through 30 are considered charter members.What are some of the characteristics of first born children?Typically both partners are head-strong, domineering, and like to be in control. First-born married to a middle child: The middle child is a superb negotiator and can thus be a good partner for almost anyone.However, the first born can be domineering and may be somewhat intimidating to the middle child. Because seriously, our little sisters have been stealing our sweaters/eyeliner/CAR for like, 20 years now and we’re really f*cking over it. One of the things I love most about my job is that I get to spend a lot of time pondering about relationships during the day and can genuinely write it off as "work" or "research" for my clients. Our parents praised our every move and yes, I know, they really should’ve cut back on that a bit. Apologies to younger siblings everywhere who have to live up to their oldest siblings.