Above all stay calm and relaxed in your Feminine energy and don’t fly off the handle and lose control of your emotions. So observe, observe and adjust your investment to his.Katarina always says to be always on the same page as him at all time.This may also be a sign to you that you are a lot more invested into him than he is into you.After all, you wouldn’t dream of still being on a dating site would you? Is he really your boyfriend or has your imagination carried you away in this relationship?Often men like you enough to move things forward, but they just aren’t all in yet.They keep these secrets because they fear your emotional reaction.You withdraw emotionally when you see he’s not actually fully in.
Unless he is a complete idiot, he is aware this would not make you happy.A woman has just realized that her boyfriend has been active on online dating sites.She is wondering if this is alright, and if she should address him.If you know for a fact that he is online and active, and you decide you must confront him or you will die, don’t go at it in an accusing manner please.A simple statement like “I noticed you have your online dating profile still up and perhaps I don’t understand the terms of our relationship correctly, could you help me out with this? Not with the ears that want to believe, but with that gut!I want to share with you that although your question is very short, I get a sense that you do not trust your boyfriend.I believe that trust is the main ingredient for a healthy relationship, and without it, the relationship becomes troublesome and both of the partners suffer.I personally still get emails from Match saying I have messages or so and so winked and I haven’t logged onto that site in over two years.I am not on a dating site, even though it appears I am. So before your analyzing mind goes into overdrive, make sure that he is actually active and doesn’t just have some dormant profile up there.I believe that once you know more about what you want from your relationship, it is important for you to talk to your boyfriend and clear the mystery of this situation.Open communication is essential for building a trusting and ultimately loving relationship.