I had a small amount of money saved up in my checkings account. To be followed by three surgeries …I was even afraid that I would be arrested while on the operating table. It took me a year to finally find a job in which they would hire you even if your credit was shot. when my landlord decided , once again , to wait to see if I could start making rent payments.And this was after I finally recovered from the cancer treatments. And to make matters worse, both my girls were 28 and 30 years old, the ex had long since remarried and was vacationing around the world several times a year. We worked out a schedule and child support payments were included in the schedule.The CS departments around the country are totally corrupt and in need of a complete overhaul which would mean totally destroying the current system as it is. I always paid my support until one day I was diagnosed with cancer which would require over a year of treatments.Half way thru the process I was laid off without disability income. Every week they hassled me, threatened to throw me in jail. all while I was going thru a tough regime of chemotherapy and radiation therapy. But then, after having my credit destroyed due to the medical bills which I could not pay and due to all the other bills I could not pay …Another said she’d have considered th Lest you think this is an example of reality TV finding evidence to support a story, Tom tried his own experiment last week. You don’t really need to feel “protected” from the dangers of suburbia. Sure enough, few women give a fair shake to a man who is 5’3”, no matter what else he has going for him. So I tried changing my profile for three days just to see what the difference was between being 5’3″ and 5’10”. And no amount of complaining is going to change it. And why, in God’s name, is it important to stand on your tiptoes to kiss a guy? Is there any legitimate reason not to go out with this amazing, amazing man?
I have decided that Child Support Department, at least in New Jersey, is set up to (1) make a dead beat dad stay that way forever and (2)If you are not a dead beat dad, the child support system views you as a loss to their income.
So, after hiring me as his dating coach, we set to work in rebranding him on We had Tom fill out my long questionnaire and submit to an hour of questions from me on the phone.
You can see what a great experience it was in this CBS Early Show clip: What I haven’t yet mentioned is that Tom Pandolfo is 5’3″.
To see if the women would go for short guys who were successful, ABCNEWS’ Lynn Sherr created extraordinary résumés for the shorter men. Sherr asked whether there’d be anything she could say that would make the shortest of the men, who was 5 feet, irresistible. And although you can feel free to substitute “older women”, “older men”, “heavier women”, or “Asian men”, I honestly feel that nobody gets a rawer deal than short guys.
She told the women that the shorter men included a doctor, a best-selling author, a champion skier, a venture capitalist who’d made millions by the age of 25. One of the women replied, “Maybe the only thing you could say is that the other four are murderers.” Another backed her up, saying that had the taller men had a criminal record she might have been swayed to choose a shorter man. Honestly, ladies…You can get your own dishes from the top shelf.