I have seen it a million times, the friend comes over (and she’s female) and she gives me the time of day because she likes me…
and then you are mad at me because you have paper handcuffs on her.
Girls are quick to get pissed when we keep a trinket but all the while wearing an engagement ring or otherwise to hold unto from the guy who cheated on her and dumped her before your rebounded ass. Sometimes you go out to a movie and he comes along, because he is her friend… The hang-arounder is usually a childhood boyfriend who doesn’t have anything else going on so he’s patient.
I’ll let people decide for themselves how to view this topic but if history serves correctly; it sounds as if the media is trying to paint the white woman as the victim but truthfully; when a grown woman thinks like a girl; the mistake she makes can have long-lasting consequences.
Bear with me because this is a huge item that women have a hard time grasping. IF A DUDE APPROACHES YOU IN ANYWAY OUTSIDE OF WORK, SCHOOL OR FAMILY HE WANTS YOU. A lot of guys get into the friend zone and are unhappy there.
They are there because their game was weak, the girl feigned marginal interest and now the sucker hangs around hoping one day he will get some pity booty out of the deal.
if she’s fine and disrespectful then you are a fool for being with her, that’s it.
If your girl has a nice ring or necklace that glitters ever so brightly and she never takes it off you may want to get some history out of her. She gives you vague explanations as to who he is exactly but he gives you odd looks when you see him. that guy right there, he will marry her and leave you looking like a dumb ass.