Clich but True Time Heals All Wounds While you dont want to hear this now, the truth of the matter is that time does heal if you let it.
You may never forget the love you shared and you will probably feel a pang or two of grief for your loss even after you have moved on in another relationship.
It is all well and good for others to tell you to hold your head up high and pretend as though it doesnt matter but they are not breaking apart from the inside out. If the breakup was brutal he may have demeaned you trying to justify his infidelity or his need to break free. Realize that some relationships just arent meant to be and you may not be the ultimate cause of the breakup.
There is nothing wrong with feeling blue when a relationship ends but there is something wrong with letting it get the better of you.
Believe it or not, breaking up is not the end of the world even if it feels like it today.
Many women find that breaking up takes such a toll on them that they just cant get up the ambition to leave the house or do the things they should be doing.
Some women even have difficulty getting dressed in the morning as they feel there seems to be no reason for it.