After nearly a month of countless messages, I realized something: He was using me as his therapist.
To him, a financial consultant I’ll call Tucker, I was his virtual manic pixie pink-haired emotional Dumpster. I wasn’t on Tinder to work through some guy’s confusion about his relationship with his mother. I’m going to tell you exactly how many messages to shoot before for before you ask her to hang. Does he have a secret girlfriend or wife and is only using the app to get some attention? If you’ve put thought into your six messages, and she’s put thought into her six messages, and you feel you might still have things to talk about, then say: “I’d love to continue this in person over drinks. ” If she says no, at least you didn’t waste too much time and energy on someone who isn’t into you, and if she says yes, yahtzee!
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We’ve walked through the steps and potential pitfalls of asking a gal out on Facebook.
So before you even send her a friend request, take a look at your own profile.
Make sure you’re using a clear photo of yourself and not some animated character or random picture of nature.
At this point, if you don’t want to ask her on a date just yet, try asking her for her phone number.
That way, you can communicate through texting or via a messaging app like Whats App.
Using this, you can try talking more often throughout the day instead of using only Facebook.
Should you sense an interest, you can try asking her out via a phone call instead of Facebook, which should have better results.
Norah, I’ve really enjoyed chatting with you over these past few weeks and I’d love to hang out in person if you’d be up for it.